About Your Reply to My Girlfriend does NOT wear a bra. I think the guy was looking for advice to persuade his girlfriend to be modest.
Although it is her body, there are standards and limitations. If she is n*** at the public beach she may get arrested. There are advantages of recognizing community values and standards.
Being in a public place may keep her from being raped while she displays herself. But maybe not. There are cases where people took no action and just stood and watched while a woman was raped. New York Times: ‘As a Woman Was Raped, Train Riders Failed to Intervene’.
Sending a suggestive, titillating message will have consequences. Rubbing the waiter on his leg, near his c***, was provocative and risqué.
Her boyfriend might want to have a relationship that builds and shares values while avoiding problems and protecting her from harm. Obviously she is an exhibitionist who behaves in a titillating manner to attract attention to herself. She is an extrovert who wants an audience of s***** voyeurs.
He mentioned nothing about trust or insecurity. Those are your issues.
