I have a crush on a girl which I know won’t work out. Firstly she’s going through some emotional problems and I don’t want to add to the pressure, she lives miles away, I can’t focus on relationships because of my A levels, she’s way out of my league and disinterested anyway and I can’t speak to her because of my anxiety. I’ve been getting unhealthy thoughts, not just of being with her but of heavy sexualization. I don’t know how to abstain from this, she’s become an obsession and I miss her when she’s not around. I don’t even know her!

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