I basically told my boyfriend i don care if he ends our relationship or not. He mentally & physically exhausting but ive secretly been in therapy working on my self worth & how to move on if he wants to break up with me. I dont have the energy anymore to find ways to get him to do bare minimum or get him to be nice to me. (Like I said i working on my self worth & understand these things men do when they actually love an respect you. This should NOT be my job) So i put everything in his hand and I feel effing amazing!!!!!! If he wants to work it wonderful cool great stupendous otherwise I actually cannot wait until he breaks up with me if he isnt going to treat me right !!
