So there’s this girl I REALLY like, and she knows it. She says that there is “a possibility” of a future between us, but she likes guys that are assholes. I’m a really good guy, and I can’t pretend to be one. I want her to love me for who I am. She and I have both swapped our “I love you”s, but I don’t think we mean the same thing. I’ve been next to her for her last two boyfriends, but it feels like I’m just a shoulder to cry on. I don’t feel like anything’s real anymore.