I need advice… And I am posting this knowing I might sound like some kind of narcissist. Full of myself. However, the truth is kind of the opposite. I have low self-esteem and I went through bouts of depression. Now here is my problem, every guy I have ever become friends with falls in love with me. Now this is a serious thing. I currently have an amazing boyfriend, and I love him with all of my heart.

It starts with us being good friends. Then they label me as their best friend and make things very emotional, they tell me things(Could be lies, I take it all with a grain of salt) that they’ve never told anyone and then eventually they will tell me they are in love with me. This has become very serious, I have had 2 boys break up with their girlfriends to try to get me. Recently one of my boyfriend’s friends who is recently graduated from college confessed to liking me and asked me to break up with my boyfriend. I was raped a few months ago as well. I have only told my boyfriend that. My cousin even tried stuff when I was younger. I don’t want to just stop talking to guys, because not EVERYONE is gonna like me. That’s what I think every time. It may be best to though. I’m really worried for everyone, I never want to hurt anyone but I end up doing it. This may all sound stupid but I don’t know what to do anymore, I keep hurting everyone when I just want to be a good person.