a close friend of mind who i had a crush on but couldn’t reciprocate I think told me in a conversation that her father had raped her. I’m not quite sure if thats what she said-but it could have been said and i wasn’t quite sure what to do about it. I became more concerend becasue when we became friends again-she had confided that her father was looking at p*** in her brothers room and left the pages up on the computer and in the cache. she also told me her father took her out sailing and her larger family suspected he was having s** with her on the boat. before I discontinued my relationship with her-she told me her father had had an affair with another woman and her mother couldn’t stop crying when she heard the woman’s name called out. It was a really onesided expereince-I allowed myself to be comfortable with a situation where she could make that confession but I couldn’t have a conversation about it. She is very bright, very high functioning but also incredibly fragile. By confessing this-I clear this secret out of my body with all of it’s poison.