Hello everyone. This is my first time doing this so I hope somebody will be able to give me some advice or maybe help me see my problem from a less negative angle. I also hope that you will all understand that this is a delicate subject for me so please try not to mock me. I have a disproportionately large p**** and my s**/love life suffers because of it. I’m 26 and it’s something I’ve been struggling with for approx 10 years now. I’ve never had a serious relationship because of it. In the past, women have laughed and/or refused to have s** with me and as you can imagine it has affected me emotionally. And with those women who were willing to give it a shot, the s** was a bitter, stilted experience for both, and more often than not painful. I normally have to bring myself to o*****. Even oral s** is awkward. According to one girl I was ‘seeing’, I am just shy of twelve inches (length) and 7 in girth when erect – I never measured myself as I thought this would make me feel like even more of a freak but she insisted and used one of those tape measures you get for sowing etc. I have been to the doctor and although penile reduction does indeed exist, it costs so much and the consequences can be so grave (you run the risk of never getting a ‘proper’ erection again) that it’s not really an option. I now feel incredibly lonely and desperate. I haven’t found any help groups for my problem. Is there anybody out there who can offer some advice? Maybe someone with a similar problem, or women who have encountered this? To give you some idea of how desperate I am for help, I am now considering a friend’s suggestion (theory) to find out which women are more likely to accommodate me – he claims, for example, that Asian women are much smaller down there generally than western women. I don’t know if this has been scientifically proven or not. I guess I’m clutching straws now. Anyway, thanks for reading and for any advice you may have.