I’m probably going to break up with my boyfriend in a couple of weeks, once I’m no longer living with him.

We’ve been together 3 months now. When we first started going out, things were great. I even told him up front that I wanted a very romantic, clingy, cheesy relationship and he said he wanted the same. And for the first month, we did have that.

Then it fell off a cliff. Then he stopped sending me good morning texts, and he stopped replying to mine. He stopped telling me he loved me. He stopped calling me his “perfect boyfriend.” He stopped talking about our future together. It became about his life, his ambitions, his future, and his plans which obviously did not include me.

Our relationship has become so much more casual than it was before. I don’t even know why he’s still with me. I guess maybe I’m his back up plan.

But I’m not anybody’s f****** back up plan. Either I’m your first choice or I’m gone. I ain’t going to stand for this half-assed relationship b*******.