My spouse of 11 years has made it clear that she has lost interest in s**. She has no desire to rekindle it, with me or anyone. She loves me, and I love her, and life is about more than just s**…but s** is pretty damn important.

On the upside, she has agreed to make love once a month.

I’m in my late 30’s and I get aroused at least 4-5 times a day.

I don’t think this is going to work.