I have never told anyone but my boyfriends best friend kissed me in his car.
He is ‘our’ friend but honestly I am getting very tired of him real fast. I want to be able to be friendly with my boyfriend friends so I do my best to get along. I bite my tongue and keep positive regardless of stupid things they may say.
This particular friend of his is his best friend of over 6-7 years(?) and visits us at our home regularly. He visits in the morning, spends the night, visits when i’m away and visits when my bf’s away.. That’s a lot for me.

I admitted to him years ago that I was slightly interested but he did not move forward with it so I left him be. This was before I was with my boyfriend. I was friends with both of them at that time and was interested in both of them.. I know it sounds slightly odd but we were a trio and two of us coupled.

Years after my boyfriend and I were together, our friend started telling me in private how he thinks he likes me. He would try holding my hand and try to make it look like were a couple when were in public just the two of us. I took it as him just being protective of me because he’s a very tall big Air force man and i’m a small 4’11 petite person. Then there was a moment where he took it too far. He opened the car door for me, I sat in and waited while I strapped my seat belt. When I was settled he leaned in and kissed me right on my lips. I didn’t move at all. He pulled back and stood a bit then closed the door and walked around to the other side without saying a word. I can’t remember the car ride very well. x___x” I just remember being silent and feeling uneasy about the whole situation. I was taken. By his best friend. I wanted to cry.

My boyfriend of 5-6 years still doesn’t know. And Our ‘Friend’ and I never talk about it. Sometimes I catch him getting uncomfortable when someone jokes about something going on between us, but only him and I notice that. I hate it. B******.

I’m such a bad person. I’m tearing up best friends left and right. My ex.. is my current boyfriend ex best friend. And now my boyfriend current best friend is trying to be an opportunist and I don’t like that. At the same time I can’t just tell my bf to not be friends with him and I most certainly can’t tell him why!