I am 35, a lifelong lesbian. My boss, 45, offered to get me pregnant. I accepted, and this year I gave birth to my second child. I am a college graduate, but have never been able to engage in high paying work. My ‘baby daddy’ pays my way. I should have thought ahead. He has privileges to me.

None of my lesbian friends fault me, in fact they are happy for me. In the gay community the response is the opposite. They hate me. It’s funny really, now that I s*** c*** to keep my meal ticket valid, they get upset about it.