Husband and I separated for 2 years after 20 years of marriage. We reconciled. I thought all was good. But he continued to lie to me. One day we were out of town. He had a meeting and we were supposed to meet at a lunch place. He was not where we planned. I found him nearby at another eatery. There were women there who were clearly backing away when I showed up and that he clearly knew me well. He fumbled and stumbled about how he had trouble finding where we were supposed to meet. He had been flirting with those women and I caught him. I let it go. I did not want to deal with it, but it was pretty obvious that he was late to our meeting because he was flirting with those women. Ugh. That was 5 years ago. We’ve been married 35 years. I can’t leave at my age. I just had a brain tumor removed. Apparantly when I came out of anesthesia I refused to see him for a few hours. The nurses had to tell him I wouldn’t see him because he thought something went wrong in the surgery. I just didn’t want to deal with him.
