It hurts me too much I get aggressive and mad when my husband tells me it is ok to go to do yoga once a week when I ask for his permission and then complains that I am never present at home with the kids only because today I had to stay longer at work and run an afterschool club then mark exams. It annoys me that he says he needs his parents’ help only because I have to arrive home late one day of the week. We moved to a different city to be away from his parents and it drives me mad that he doesn’t spend a day without including his parents in all our plans. How can he not see he is being hypocritical when he says he wants to spend more one-to-one time with the kids when every time I ask him to spend a little time with them the first thing he does is put them in front of a screen? How can he be so mean to them every day telling them to leave him alone and go to play on their own, never sitting with them calmly or playing with them until I ask him, then complaining that I am never at home so he will get his parents here to be able to spend time with the children?
