my heart goes out to so many people on this site. I just hear a lot of voices who are trying to take leaps when they have not learnt to walk yet.

we don’t always hear what we want to in life from others and its hard to accept failure in love or career dreams and ambitions in life but if only more people realized that its more realistic to look for work in aged care and retail or getting a hungry jacks job instead of wanting to be a glamour photographer or glamour lawyer or glamour scientist people would be happier. so many people mow lawns and iron and clean peoples homes while studying at college just to get by and there is money in those service handy house jobs and you don’t even need a course to do them.

please don’t see these realistic ambitions as set backs but as step ups.

instead of wanting to meet lawyers or managers just try your local sports club or pub to meet someone special. Forget these online dating services join parents without partners. Get drunk with the good old guys with a sound and reliable wife at your local service club. Prince charming does not come along and if you go for realistic guys you will never have to fight off competition or be a desperate housewife ever again. Prince Charmin’s usually come along when they are 60 and often drive a BMW and don’t wear armor but incontinence pads, so have some heart and check out a weirdo now and then they may have more to offer then any guy dressed in a business suit.

why not ask a garbage collector out or a meat slaughter assistant or cement layer.

being realistic about what you can do and who you are and what you have going for you is the key to winning in life.

so many people think they are prettier and look younger then what they really do or think they can do more then what they really can, so stop looking in the mirror and be your outrageous realistic self and take up a stone or shell collecting hobby.