I have literally two friends. One is my boyfriend with whom I live with and the other is his best friend. I don't know anybody else. His best friend wants

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I have literally two friends. One is my boyfriend with whom I live with and the other is his best friend. I don’t know anybody else. His best friend wants to be my friend as well and we were closer in the past but he left for the air force for four years and now he’s back and wants to be close again. I don’t have a problem with that but he’s stupid.

He doesn’t take me seriously, and sees me as a kid of his or something. He’s extremely tall and i’m extremely small. If he has troubles or talks to my Bf and I about things he is fishing for life advice. He’s fishing for advice from my bf, but what he doesn’t know is, everything my boyfriend knows, I told him!! And If I try to say something helpful, he’ll just pat my head and belittle me. He babies me. I hate it. I know he doesn’t mean it, and I know i’m not the best with words all the time, but i’m not stupid. He has no right to treat me like that and then expect me to be all friendly with him.

Why does he see me as someone so stupid!? All I do in my free time is study!! I don’t even like talking to him anymore because it seems like every comment I make he judges it and puts it down somehow. And if I ever call him out on it, he gets all mopey and my bf treats me like I did something wrong by doing that and then tells me that I can’t talk to him that way.

Bf: “He’s our friend, you don’t talk to friends like that.”
Me: “He’s not right, can’t you see i’m right?!
Bf: “I know but just, be nice.”

How am I just supposed to roll over and accept it all. Just play nice. I am not a mean person. I am a blunt person. I tell it exactly like it is, even if you don’t like it.
I’m tired of playing nice, this friend has got to change his attitude and I’m going to let him know.

I’ll be seeing him alone tonight where we can hopefully figure out where things got different.. I just hope he doesn’t get all weird again… G’Z freak.

New Confession

The amount of pointless posts on here is ridiculous.
I guess I’ll add to it.
Deeply wishing you would show up.
We could smoke and talk about our feelings.
Catch up, and whatnot.
Anyway, ta-ta.
🌺

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