Maybe he’s not TRYING to put you last, it’s effortless because he doesn’t like you?

I feel that way about a woman I knew many many years ago. She didn’t turn out well at all and from what I have seen is way way beyond redemption. Everything she does now is just a turn off to me. She can’t even turn me on with what actually turns me on which is how you know it’s bad. It’s revolting, which I don’t feel bad about saying because she has many “suitors” (haha!). It shouldn’t phase her in the least. Or maybe it does, I’m a hard loss but she is not willing or even capable of change at this point. Long gone.

No, and the woman I was referring to last night has herself together. I believe she doesn’t hate anyone. She’s doing alright. From what I have heard and seen she has been successful in life is in a good place and is a good person. SHE goes back even further than the above woman. This one is technically the start of life. She knew my mother. My mom loved her. When we were kids.

^^^ anyone else from my past, distant or recent other than her, is not welcome.