My husband is so much better than I deserve. He’s so patient, and understanding and is always there for me, but I can’t do anything for him when he’s upset or stressed out. It kills me inside and tears me apart knowing I can’t do a thing to help him. It’s either that there’s not a thing I can do or he hides it well enough from me that I don’t notice it and it makes me feel like a terrible wife for not being able to support my husband. I don’t know what I can do. I love him so much but I feel like I need to contribute more to the relationship than I’m taking.