okay so let me give you some background. this happened from april 4th to may 4th 2022. all names are fake to provide privacy, including mine.

me: luca

2 exes (poly relationship): mike and joe

okay so to keep this relatively short, we did exchange nudes occasionally, equally at request of me and them. i always gave them the option to say no, and delete whenever they wanted to. around 2 weeks into the relationship i started paying more attention to school because i wanted to have good grades, which caused me to become distant and cold to them, which i feel terrible for. as we spoke, things kind of escalated and i asked if i took advantage of them. they said no. i apologized for being so distant and everything, but i felt i wasnt as interested anymore. but i just didnt know how to tell them, and i wasnt as intimate or didn’t pay enough attention to them as they wanted, so we had an argument which led to us taking a break, and then deciding to break up.

**TLDR: me and 1 of my exes (mike) exchanged nudes and i always gave them the option to say no, and to delete later. i asked if i took advantage of them after we broke up, and they said no. just for them to 180 a few days later and saying what i did was “textbook grooming”.