My mom confessed to me that my grandfather (when he was alive) told her that my birth was the first thing she did that was good. She was 15 when she had me and even though things were rough for years, it made her feel good about this. I feel sad that my grandfather never told her he was proud of her. Is that what led to my birth? Her need for something to love and to be proud of? She told me not to tell my youngest brother this because he loved my grandfather a lot. This gets me angry also because why should he think that HIS birth was the thing that made my grandfather proud of my mom while basically my birth and my other brother’s birth weren’t see as this? He is already entitled and a selfish pig who gets things handed to him and expect more. Let this humble his a** down.