My boyfriend is in love with another woman and its tearing me apart and I think its ripping him to shreds as well, he seems less attached and drinks more I am worried and I can’t really get him to talk about it. I love him and want him to be happy and would do anything to make that happen for him but at the same time I dont want to let him go. It will break me and throw me back into the dark place he helped me climb out of. she currently lives to far away to make a relationship with. i just feel broken and lost i wish he loved me like that vs just settling.