I’m ready to just drop everything – leave my job, my family, my “friends,” and go with this boyfriend who’s so in love with me (though lately I’m not feeling the same). I’d rather go deal with him and his hobbies than stay here another minute and feel alone, but again that means I’m being submissive and just aiming to please someone else so he gets everything he wants. Sometimes I feel like I’m better than them all. I can be there for so many people, and not a single one can be there for me. It works two ways, but apparently that’s too complex of an idea for them. What the hell am I supposed to do?