I truly doubt you’re the person I’m talking to, but just in case. Materialistic? You are selling the things that meant the most to him, the things he’d want his grandsons to have. You dumped his ashes in a f****** flower bed in your back yard for Christ sake!!! You cheated on him with nasty a** dope dealing n******, when he had a brain injury that you could take advantage of! Your only skill set is being a greedy, nasty a** w**** with no conscience what so ever! I’ve never in my life met such a disgusting, cold hearted person like you. You deserve nothing and you will end up with nothing. I promise you that.