i’m an introvert but my parents blame me for not being like other people’s children who are good at communicating with people. We only have one neighbor in close proximity to our house but we are not close to them. We siblings grew up with situations where we didn’t know how to treat guests every time they came. my parents were assertive. every time i want to go out i am not allowed and have to lie to them so i can go out for a walk with my close friends. I don’t know why we should be blamed and compared to other people’s children who grew up with a lot of people around. and even though I didn’t get number one in the exams, which at least I’m still in the top 10. but, my parents really don’t understand how me and my siblings grew up with just ourselves communicating every day without going out of the house. but today my father has said something so painful that it made me cry. he said, if we are not good at communicating with people we will not get a good job even though we are introverts we still get good results even if not the best. although that is an advice for all of us but the word is a prayer, it is also like an curse. there is much more my father had said but enough of this alone.