After 3 years of dealing with my husband’s coworker who he admits has feelings for him, I finally say yesterday that I don’t like her. The next day he says she wants us to watch her dog, that though I find her annoying, we should do it because she’s the best candidate to watch our dog and he wants to maintain that status quo. I don’t want her to watch my dog. I don’t want her in my house. I don’t want her to be a part of every vacation. I want us to distance ourselves from this clingy woman. My husband just won’t listen to me. I’m not even asking him to stop talking to her or to stop being friends, just please, can we not jump at every opportunity to do her a favor?