How do I explain this so you might understand. The way you think you feel right now….I felt that and so much more with you. But we had also been together for a few years at that point, not a few months. So how you’re feeling right now, imagine leaving the house expecting to come back in the evening and thinking everything is fine, but then two hours later she’s not answering your calls or texts. Then you get “home” only to be told that she’s going back to the one she left for you. No explanation or apology, just that you need to go. Like everything since you’ve been together never even happened. And then you are expected to not even feel anything or react? Told to just get over it and move on when your whole world was just uprooted. Normal people can’t just flip feelings off like a switch, and it does mess people up to have their entire world as they knew and believed it to be suddenly ripped out from under them with no warning, no apology, and no remorse.