I am a 74 y.o. man and married and I made a mess of my whole life. I could blame ADD or Aspergers but I am not sure I actually had either of them. My whole life I was a liar and a slacker. I was admitted to good schools and didn’t study and nearly flunked out. Same with good jobs. I wanted girl friends but I had no redeeming qualities and was creepy to boot. I was a terrible child, always making demands and accusations of my poor parents, without giving them anything to be proud of. I married a girl who settled for me and she is too good for me. At my age it’s too late to undo all this damage. Leasrn from my example and don’t be a slacker nor lack integrity.
