What do you mean “beating” their a**? You mean like a fist fight, or just in general, better looking, better in bed, cooler, more liked, a family you get along with?

Because if it’s a fist fight, isn’t that a bit grade 10? You would think that after time passes with not no contact to go after someone from your past, a past romantic interest, it shows their insecurity and lack of confidence to be better and/or it shows your inability to just let it go and move on into a better place.

If it’s to be better overall, it’s good to want to be a better person in different aspects of your own life. Strive to get an honest job making more money, be more honest, maybe do something to make yourself physically look better, take vitamins, watch what you eat, cut some bad habits, get a haircut, cloths, take up some interests a hobby. But the thing about that in most cases, there is nothing wrong with doing something at any time in your life. For example, my mom took up dancing at one point in her late 40. She joined a thing to do “Jive Dancing” and Salsa Dancing, those are words I heard thrown around at the time. See that’s good and the thing about it is, it was her. That was her style. She picked it. She didn’t looking someone else she envied, and said “I wanna be like that…” and did it, she said “I wanna do something to enrich my life, make it fun… that’s it, and she did it. That’s the key, being genuine. What they do to enrich themselves needs to beat their a** should be genuine and from the heart. I need to be them.