We all, deep down, want intimate human connection. This can be manifested in two forms: emotional intimacy and physical intimacy.

Guys’ s** drive comes from a physical standpoint first, and an emotional desire second. Growing up in the age of internet p*** means our desire for intimate human connection was developed into explicit, h******* p***. When a guy says, “I want to do [explicit h******* s**] with you,” it’s how they understand asking for intimacy.

It doesn’t mean it’s right to just go around telling people, “I want to f*** you,” but it is to put a twist on it in that: it is still a request for human intimacy.