My bf is lazy and entitled and just a plain jerk. I work a full time job, do all the chores (including the ones meant to be his), have taken on cooking half the week, fill out his paperwork, drive him everywhere he needs, isolate myself to keep him safe, provide him pain medicine, stopped my delivery job so he would stop accusing me of cheating, and constantly pick up the slack and mess he somehow creates by sitting and doing nothing all day. He sleeps the day away and spends his spare time making me look bad to local people on the internet, despite me being the one keeping our lives afloat. He talks about how much he hates me and wants to leave me because of how terrible I am, and accuses me of cheating, but he’s a liar, and if he hates me so much why wouldn’t he just leave me? He’s the abusive one. He’s the one that has, physically hurt me multiple times and actually tried to kill me once. He’s the one that throws tantrums like a child when he doesn’t get his way. He’s the one that wants to spend and make other irresponsible decisions while claiming I’m a hinderance to his future. He’s never to blame for anything. Any light chore I ask of him is too much for his fragile body yet he wants to claim he’ll be able to work somehow and complains that we don’t do much physical activity outside. I even offer him chores that he can do sitting down or on his phone yet he refuses and claims I’m the lazy one. He’s also claiming I force him to do things I actually specifically ask him not to do. I’m confident those who know me and see my work ethic won’t fall for his tricks and will realize that when he lost control of me he started controlling how people perceive me.