Sounds like one lover was caught and it ended the affair. IDK why people waste their time screwing with another person’s reject. Cheating is never going to end good. It’s really s***** when the wife blames the other woman. Like, wtf? Didn’t the a****** you’ve got f*** around, too? Get mad at his a**! You’re better off without him, and with someone who cares about you. Work on that.