How do you learn not to hate a person, when you become distant after you loved that person so much ? There was a time when we were happy together, but people change we both did. It would be a lie to say that someone was at fault. Our trauma connected us, but our difficulties are over. We changed, but other than each other , we remembered our dreams. So it’s really important to me to pursue my dreams without hating the person I loved. And I don’t know hot to do that. But I can’t stay broken, not after what we have been through.