But yeah. I understand the difference. I’m in the 5%. She can take my hand and she knows I won’t r*** her or pressure her, but I’m thinking there is something there. It might not grow into anything, love is a tricky thing, it’s complicated, but touchy feely between straight people…. There is something there. There’s potential, there is some level of desire in that act but I am also smart enough to know that people play and you can’t really take certain things completely serious from such an act, but at the same time…. Who knows… I think there’s something in it
Straight guys don’t hold hands. Women, straight or lesbian, it happens, and homosexual men with themselves and women would not be all that out there. Men of any type doing this together is abnormal. We don’t desire it. That’s called platonic. I would say the “love” between platonic people is probably more shown and proven, rather than with intimacy as in touching of any kind. That’s romantic. They say a kiss is more intimate than s**. IMO hand play is right in there. It’s the pulp fiction “foot massage debate” I agree with the black dude on that one personally.
If my girlfriend is holding some other dudes hand or touching it…. That guy better be gay or I might not even want to hear an explanation.