Also you can’t ever give up certain things once they’re in so in a case such as this, I usually resign. To go that route is better than being the person who has to live with the baggage, which never gets let go of. It’s easy to say, but what s to say it’s letting go? That’s doesn’t just happen.
You know? I could say something stupid like “and I know that I am what’s most important in the grand scheme of things, you lose me because of it and blah blah blah” which is true but really does it matter? Who really gives a s***? You will do whatever you will whether I’m there or not, you will get what you need one way or another. Does it even matter if you learn a lesson from it about how to treat the people who care about you and who are important to you in some way? I won’t ever see the results of you changes you make based on your life lesson about how not to properly treat the people who love you and are important to you, what to do and what not to do, so who cares?