I am a man trapped in an abusive marriage of 20 years. My youngest will be an adult in a few years. I don’t know if I will survive that long. The stigma of men being the bad guy in a relationship has prevented all help I have tried to get. This is my one statement to the world so something is left when I am gone and all the remains of me are lies from a manipulative psycho. Cherish your life no matter how meaningless it may seem at a given moment.