Well if that’s what the person wants, staying in a lane, stress free, trying to to survive with no f****** unnecessary b******* or stupid drama, then that’s not wrong and you can’t change someone who’s on course, in and straight line, into believing otherwise. Just because you don’t think the person should be antisocial or whatever, doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be. It’s not up to you what is right or wrong, especially if the person who wants f*** all to do with you for whatever reason, would rather have it that way. That should not be any of your concern as long as the person is not actively trying to make your life hell or causing problems for you. Being hostile. If they are hostile when you get brand them…. you should take it for what it is. If someone doesn’t want anything to do with you or something for one reason, another, or many reasons, doesn’t mean they’re wrong.

Maybe you crossed boundaries you knew were there, you said “f*** the consequences” and broke some big boundaries… Well, the consequences are you changed the way the person feels about you maybe forever. It’s possible that the way this person is treating you is exactly how you made them feel, whether you see it as right or wrong doesn’t matter. Your opinion means nothing, all that matters is what they think. There’s consequences. Maybe the person is just tough and confident in their beliefs? They are not easily swayed because they are just that sure. They don’t follow, they have an opinion. If this person is unlikely to join cliques, or groups, or religions, doctors even… You are not gonna change their mind… You’ll just piss them off thinking you can. You’ll make it worse.

I’d say back off and forget it, or change you a** into what is perfect to the person. Which is also impossible. Could never happen.