I think we become what we or our parents want us to be.When i hit puberty i was really scared to be seen s******* by any men,i was just a kid but still there were men who were trying to lure me and were sexualising me which made me.tie my b**** so tight that nobody would realise that my b**** are growimg out,which actually did not help but grew my b**** bigger,my a** were bigger.Now i’m 25 and i have A size b**** and literally no a** for my body shape but have huge tummy fat after delivery.Not very visible to others but i see myself with huge tummy and it is.But my question is where did my a** go and where are my t******.When i did not need it they were there and now that am a grown women and comfortable with how i have grown into aa women,i don’t have womanlly features.This is so f****** unfair.