I’m in the happiest relationship of my life, but my “friend” Jett just can’t be happy for me. It hurts me so f****** much that he goes to such levels to be a d*** just because I’m in a relationship with someone other than him. He’s liked me since he met me, and I set clear boundaries with him because I was absolutely not interested, and I’m 18 while he’s 14. I’m not a weirdo, even if there was no s** and it was “technically legal” like he constantly goes on about, that’s f****** weird, wrong, and Im NOT okay with it. I don’t want to date him, I’ve told him so many times. I’m not interested, the age gap is inappropriate and wrong, and I just don’t seem him like that. He’s so young, and just,, so not my type. He and I had a mutual friend, José, who I started dating 4 months ago. He is unlike anybody I’ve ever dated or been with, and it’s embarassing, but I’ve dated a lot. He makes me so happy, we’re so compatible, and he’s the first person I’ve shared my body with. He’s perfect. We hid it from Jett for a while, because he had a crush on BOTH of us at one point, and we both knew that he was still really into me. But recently, we told him. It felt like the right thing to do, considering how much time all 3 of us spent together. He seemed accepting and even rather happy for us at first, but then he, out of right field, has started doing all this awful s***. Like getting José and I into a video call, then making me answer secret texts to him WHILE MY BOYFRIEND was right there. And the texts were things like “if you break up with josé, will you give me a chance?”. I was so f****** uncomfortable and mad. Then, he goes on to tell me that José will never be able to treat me as well as he could, and that he was UPSET José’s parents weren’t racist towards me (I’m white) like we all expected them to be. They never wanted José to be with anyone who wasn’t hispanic, but when I came in the picture, they were actually super supportive and nice. It made me so f****** happy, but jett just HAD to s*** on it. Then, when the mean things he say upsets me, he had the audacity to go “haha yeah I’m done being bitter. Just had to get that out of my system.” As if everything he had said and done hadn’t hurt me to my core. Tonight, José made an instagram post comparing a message I sent him, to a message a friend of his sent him. It was a joke post, where the punchline was just “haha look, she sent something weird, while his homie sent something romantic! Haha!” And jett commented “looks like you picked the wrong girlfriend 👀”. What a f****** a******. Even if he was trying to play along with the joke, it’s a d*** move considering everything he’s f****** done and said. He’s such an a******. Why is he such an a******. I just want to be happy with José. For 5 f****** minutes. F*** you, Jett.