I agree about the friendship thing and for me IT IS genuine. I don’t think a lot of people, especially women believe that with me. Most of the time all they need to do is look at what attracted me to them or what got my attention in the first place. It’s probably pretty damn real. I know with this one I’m interested in lately, she way out of my league, likely impossible even, but she could think about it and know it and I’m not going to lie, one of the aspects was physical, looking for certain types that might turn me on (I hope she understands and is it really that bad that someone finds you attractive or is interested that way?), physical, but that led me to see another side that was an interest and a talent which shows another side and it kinda got me. And then of course I also recognize she’s not bullet proof, nobody is and I think “yeah, I would love to just lay there with her doing nothing…” part of me would also like to “be there”. Pretty sure She has seen some not such good times in life, I know that, everyone has.