lily- hey lily sorry it takes a while to respond to u. but dude if that is ur girl get ur girl. there’s a whole lot to go through anyway. u can take time and meet back with her. u can let things take its course. u can let her text u. there are so many things to happen girl be open and don’t think the worst. u can get passed the pain but i hope it’ll all unfold even better for you and her. still hope you’re being safe with alcohol.