lily- if she flirted while waiting for you but you blocked her and didn’t talk to her or anything you cannot blame her and you have to let that go especially if you have told her to move on or not. if she changed for you the change is always going to be there now. she’s either better for you or the next person. if she’s back to her old self then there was no change to begin with and u should not involve yourself. you can’t say you don’t want to go back because she probably flirted with someone because truthfully she might have. but with that you have to think of the reasoning behind it and it’s you. she is probably hurting, maybe trying to move on, or get through the pain of waiting for u. she might even be thinking youre the one talking to someone else so i just don’t want u to say u cant go back because of something that is okay to do when you are not together. if she now thinks you two aren’t going to be together again because of how you’re dealing with it with her then that’s also another reason. youre not bothering me girl don’t worry im bored but if it wasn’t good last night for you it probably won’t be again. just think before u do always.
