I have a part time long distance younger boyfriend who I love madly who has is everything I desire in a man we have never had s** other then online sexchat. he finds it hard to understand that I except his way of getting through the back door with everything, but I do. I think he has a harder time understanding my desires infatuations sometimes for men who are into their 80s (then men in their 40s or 50s ) because it makes him question his manhood. I try to explain to him nothing could make me love him more just as he is. I tell him “I love you. you know I love you and will always love you, how can I make you see I love you and live for you. nothing could make me love you more if only you would spend more time with me to see that I love you more then all the others”, however my desire for an older man sometimes is based on the love of his attainableness, how his youth died and not pity or anything else. my boyfriend he says he wanted my a** buttered and fried with some spice like a s*** battered pineapple with a perfect ring hole. I just said cute and said “ott ” to that !