I have a fairly decent friend who keeps trying to get me to go and visit him. He’s a fair bit older than me, and keeps making slight uncomforting advances towards me, which makes me really hesitant to visit him as I know he’d be wanting a little more. He is a well-esteemed figure in his field, and we work as business partners somewhat. I know that anything I remark could really damage his reputation, but I believe he’s been like this with many before me.