My uncle, aunt and gran caught me with a p*** magazine (it was the 90s) when I was 14. They mishandled the situation by shaming me. They should have said something like ‘It’s natural for you to have an interest in women at this age. We can’t recommended you look at these kinds of magazines until you are 18. Why don’t you ask out a girl? You’d have a lot more fun than just looking at pictures of them.’