when i’m older, i don’t want the boyfriend i have to have to worry about anything. i know it sounds old-fashioned, but i just want to take care of my man, and baby him, etc. without going into too much detail, my current bf and i are v serious, and i know y’all can say “oh but you never know for sure” but we believe we are truly meant to be. you just know. i want to work my a** off so by the time we’re ready to have kids we don’t have to worry about stuff like bills and diapers and stuff like that. obviously this wouldn’t make him a house-husband, i just like taking care of people and making sure they have what they want to be comfy. both my bf and i have come from very rough backgrounds, with absent parents, extreme money struggles, and doing anything to get by. when i say that i don’t want him to worry about anything, i mean that i wouldn’t worry about anything either, but i want him to feel secure and truly free for once. odd? maybe. my dream? absolutely!
