My roommate refuses to believe me when I say their cat is irritated with them when they pick her up and hold her like a baby. They do all that baby talk and get in her face. Just because she doesn’t attack you doesn’t mean she’s not irritated. There’s plenty of signs that arnt that hard to read. Your cat isn’t “special” just cuz you care more about her than your own kid. Just a random irritation on top of many I have right now