Update on the old friend who has been acting strange since I told him I would sleep with him but didn’t.

I lured him over with his favorite meal and we had a long talk. He apologized for pushing me away and told me he did it because he felt bad for being so persistent in pursuing me and making me uncomfortable. I told him that I was never uncomfortable and that I’m sorry for getting his hopes up. To that, he explained how he felt it was both of our faults because he shouldn’t have flirted with me immediately after I was cheated on. We declared everything forgiven and hugged… But then he started crying (I have only see him cry when family members die and when he broke his arm in 2nd grade). I asked him if everything was okay and he said it’s been a hard month. I tried to get him to talk about it but he didn’t want to. He left pretty quickly after that. I don’t know if we are going to be okay. He used to tell me everything. I don’t know if it’s because of what happened between us or because something else going on. I want to be there for him.