I wasted too many years waiting for you to change, trusting you when you said you’d work on your temper and ignorance. You humiliated me by saying homophobic things to my lesbian best friend, using racial slurs in front of my family, cursing at another driver in front of my little cousins, etc. I told them that it’s how you were raised and that you are trying to be a better person. I’m an idiot for trusting you. You’re hateful and prone to throwing tantrums. You’re never going to change. I’m ending it this weekend. I shouldn’t have said yes to your proposal but I’m finally seeing things clearly. I will not let your reputation and rash behaviors stain my good name. This was your last “last chance” to prove to me you want this to work.