My husband and I have only had s** 3 times in the first year of our marriage. Only one of those times my husband was able to successfully finish. And out of those 3 times, all of them consisted of d********** and no foreplay. We have been together for almost 7 years and apart from the first 3 months of our relationship, we have been primarily sexless.

Before we started dating, I had had my fair share of s***** encounters. From those experiences, I quickly got to know what things turn me on in bed. My husband had only been with 2 other women before me and he is vastly inexperienced. This wasnt an issue for me as long as he was willing to experiment.

He always says he’s open to trying new things s*******, but everytime I try to initiate something “different” he immediately shuts down. I understand he’s intimidated and unsure, but we have been together for 7 years and he still even has a hard time kissing me. Forget about French kissing.

I am a very s***** person, and I am devastated to find out that my husband that I’ve decided to commit to for the rest of my life, can barely be bothered to even kiss me, let alone have passionate s** with me.

I am so lonely and dont know what else I can so anymore.