Need legit advice and don’t know where to ask. There don’t seem to be much in the way of filters here so I am hoping to get some honest, real, technical advice.

I’m a married man and father of 4. My wife had a hysterectomy a few years back and I sort of fell into f****** dudes on the side. Yeah yeah I know i know. But dudes tend to be less emotional and dramatic about f*****, so it’s just easier. F***, nut, and go. I am careful about doin my side f***** during the work week during the day so I’m not missed anywhere.

Anyway most of the dudes I meet are experienced at taking d***. I like getting head but much prefer f*****. I exclusively top dudes and don’t really consider myself bi or homo – more opportunstic, I guess? Anyway, I just want to get my nut and bounce. Most of them are pretty good at taking a f***, so it’s not a problem.

However all that bein said, I have been talking to a young dude who has ZERO experience. The thought of breakin in someone who hasn’t even had a d*** in them is exciting as hell, but I also don’t want to inflict any pain if I can help it. I don’t really consider myself real hung but I am about 7.5 uncut and pretty thick. I tend to be selfish when I am f*****, and it’s usually not a problem for experienced bottom guys but even some of them get stressed out taking me sometimes.

I’d like some real advice on how to best teach him how to take me. I’m afraid to hurt him and scare him off meeting me again. He is eager and so am I. He wants to s*** my c*** bad, but I know from experience I am gonna need to f*** to enjoy it.

Y’all hook me up with some tutorials.