Have arranged to meet up with a guy i’ve sexted on and off for years and it seems like this time we’re actually going to do stuff for real and I’m not even sure I want to, it’s making me feel really nervous and the pressures of feeling like I have to be totally shaved from the neck down and look perfect is sort of ruining any excitement I might feel about it. I’m also only just out of a relationship and even though my ex has already had s** with someone through tinder I sort of feel like I should tell him, like I’m still not out of feeling faithful to him or something. Also the guy i’m meeting up with is in a “complicated” situation with his girlfriend and I almost feel a responsibility to tell her even though I don’t know her. I know it should be up to him to cut it off or tell her the truth but I know what it’s like to be betrayed and I wouldn’t want any woman to go through that so I feel very torn about whether or not I want to do stuff s******* with this guy or not. We’ve talked about what we’d want “to do” to each other etc and I’m used to that just staying in messages and never becoming a reality and it’s just a bit of fun whereas this guy seems pretty serious about actually doing stuff and I’ve let him down before and been flakey because I got too nervous and so I supppse I want to prove to him? Myself? That I can actually follow through with a plan but like I say, it’s just making me nervous.